Would you agree that bigger kids mean bigger problems? In this phase of life, one of our biggest struggles is learning how to best parent our older kids. We all seem to be getting a crash course in letting go.
In this engaging episode of Life after Kids we’re examining the evolving challenges of parenting as children grow older, moving from the simplicities of potty training to the complexities of existential issues in adulthood. We illuminate the timeless struggle of letting go and the emotional toll it can take on parents as their children forge their own paths.
Key Takeaways:
Listen to today’s episode in its entirety to hear us open up about realizing that parenting doesn't end when children leave the nest; it simply transforms, and that the most difficult part of motherhood might just be witnessing your children face life's adversities. In the end, we all grow in the struggle, even our kids.
Timestamp
0:01:32 | Challenges of letting go and allowing kids to face their own struggles
0:03:16 | Importance of not judging other moms and offering support instead
0:06:15 | The difficulty of surrendering control as kids become adults
0:07:21 | Shifting dynamics of communication and finding a balance as parents
0:09:09 | Importance of fostering open communication with older children
0:10:33 | The importance of empowering children to make their own decisions
0:11:23 | Encouraging children to prioritize their own happiness
0:12:01 | Using the Socratic method to guide adult children
0:14:30 | Being open to receiving advice from adult children
0:15:36 | Balancing short-term happiness with long-term gains
0:17:47 | Concerns about changing relationships with daughter-in-laws after marriage
0:19:18 | The tricky dynamics between mothers-in-law and sons
0:20:46 | Mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law dynamics
0:21:14 | The importance of recognizing the formation of a new family unit
0:23:30 | Avoiding overstepping boundaries and not expecting something in return
0:24:10 | The law of reciprocity and giving without expectation
0:25:40 | Having a strong sense of self and a fulfilling life outside of children
0:26:32 | Letting go of being the most important woman in your son's life
0:27:10 | Fostering a positive relationship with daughter-in-law
0:28:12 | Finding gratitude in the ways daughter-in-law complements your child
0:29:37 | Accepting the changes in the relationship as children grow up
0:33:07 | The importance of self-awareness
Enjoy the show, and we hope you learn a little bit more about living a fulfilling, vibrant, and meaningful Life after Kids!
If you like what you hear please rate and review the podcast, hit subscribe, and pass it along to a friend.
Making tomorrow even better than today,
Dr. Brooke and Dr. Lynne
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Would you agree that bigger kids mean bigger problems? In this phase of life, one of our biggest struggles is learning how to best parent our older kids. We all seem to be getting a crash course in letting go.
In this engaging episode of Life after Kids we’re examining the evolving challenges of parenting as children grow older, moving from the simplicities of potty training to the complexities of existential issues in adulthood. We illuminate the timeless struggle of letting go and the emotional toll it can take on parents as their children forge their own paths.
Key Takeaways:
Listen to today’s episode in its entirety to hear us open up about realizing that parenting doesn't end when children leave the nest; it simply transforms, and that the most difficult part of motherhood might just be witnessing your children face life's adversities. In the end, we all grow in the struggle, even our kids.
Timestamp
0:01:32 | Challenges of letting go and allowing kids to face their own struggles
0:03:16 | Importance of not judging other moms and offering support instead
0:06:15 | The difficulty of surrendering control as kids become adults
0:07:21 | Shifting dynamics of communication and finding a balance as parents
0:09:09 | Importance of fostering open communication with older children
0:10:33 | The importance of empowering children to make their own decisions
0:11:23 | Encouraging children to prioritize their own happiness
0:12:01 | Using the Socratic method to guide adult children
0:14:30 | Being open to receiving advice from adult children
0:15:36 | Balancing short-term happiness with long-term gains
0:17:47 | Concerns about changing relationships with daughter-in-laws after marriage
0:19:18 | The tricky dynamics between mothers-in-law and sons
0:20:46 | Mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law dynamics
0:21:14 | The importance of recognizing the formation of a new family unit
0:23:30 | Avoiding overstepping boundaries and not expecting something in return
0:24:10 | The law of reciprocity and giving without expectation
0:25:40 | Having a strong sense of self and a fulfilling life outside of children
0:26:32 | Letting go of being the most important woman in your son's life
0:27:10 | Fostering a positive relationship with daughter-in-law
0:28:12 | Finding gratitude in the ways daughter-in-law complements your child
0:29:37 | Accepting the changes in the relationship as children grow up
0:33:07 | The importance of self-awareness
Enjoy the show, and we hope you learn a little bit more about living a fulfilling, vibrant, and meaningful Life after Kids!
If you like what you hear please rate and review the podcast, hit subscribe, and pass it along to a friend.
Making tomorrow even better than today,
Dr. Brooke and Dr. Lynne
PS... Don't forget to follow us!
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Facebook
Tik Tok